You’ve probably heard that meditation is good for our health.
It can help us relax, de-stress, and improve concentration and sleep quality, to name a few benefits.
But if you’ve sat down to give it a go and felt everything but calm, you’re not alone.
Fortunately, this experience can change with just six simple steps.
Read on to learn how to get the most from your meditation practice …
1. Choose the right time and place
Find a quiet, comfortable place where you know you won’t be disturbed. You can sit on the floor or in a chair, or even lie down. When starting out, it can be helpful to meditate when you’re already relaxed, for example, after a bath. As you become more experienced, you may find the most benefit from meditating when stressed. Experiment to find the time and place which work best for you.
2. Start small
Meditation isn’t easy, particularly when you first start out, so it’s best to stick to short periods initially – say five or 10 minutes. Rather than trying to ‘empty the mind’, begin by simply sitting still, observing the thoughts that enter your mind and letting them pass without judgement. Learning to sit with our thoughts and be non-reactive is an important first step of meditation.
3. Focus on the breath
Thinking of ‘nothing’ is almost impossible and, in fact, not the end goal of meditation. Rather, meditating should help us to quiet the mind and connect with our inner selves. Concentrating on our inhalations and exhalations is a great way to do this, plus it’s often easier to centre your attention on the breath, than a blank mind.
4. Try a mantra
A mantra is a sound, phrase or word that you repeat silently in your mind when meditating. This, like the breath, can be a helpful tool to help focus your attention and still the mind. If you find yourself drifting from the mantra, simply return to it without reacting. It’s natural for the mind to wander, but with practice, this will happen less. A simple mantra to start with is the sound ‘ah-hum’. Think the sound ‘ah’ with an inhalation, and ‘hum’ with an exhalation.
5. Find the right fit
There are many different styles and varieties of meditation. You may prefer guided meditation (either recorded or in a class) or simply listening to soft music. You may focus on a mantra, a feeling (like contentment, for example), the breath or a colour. You may stay silent or chant or a mixture of both. Explore a few types until you find the best fit.
6. Practice makes perfect
Meditation is not a simple activity and can take time to learn. At the beginning, you may fidget, think every thought but the mantra, or only last two minutes. Don’t be hard on yourself, just try to persist with regular practice. Over time, your mind and body will become more accustomed to meditation and unwind faster.
For more guidance, consider trying a meditation class, available at yoga studios and some gyms, or downloading a free app, such as Smiling Mind or One Giant Mind.